Let’s grow our hearts and minds larger, rather than our mouths.
You see a turning point in your life ,but ignore it cuz you confuse a poisonous relation with love. Love is not poisonous.
You see others experiencing the same what you are going through. You listen to the stories of how someone ended up with a toxic person, and is at misery. You become restless ,coz somewhere deep inside your heart knows ,that if you didn’t get rid of this so called love, which is actually not. You’ll be in this miserable condition.
But putting aside your pride you carry on, coz you want to trust the one you love, you don’t want to give up on him. You want to believe in yourself, and in both of you. That’s a good characteristics of your personality. But has nothing to do with the person ,who only want you for their own benefits.
How can you expect a man who lies to himself everyday ,who believes in his own lies, to be honest with you.. sometimes people try to destroy you bit by bit coz they recognise your power, n’ they don’t want it to exist.
It’s important to recognise the toxic people n’ get rid of them before they completely destroy you.
They are the people who are always offended with the truth, and who have mastered to play the victim or innocent in all aspects. People who behave differently in public to gain a kind ,nice man’s image.
Whenever you find yourself the victim of others bitterness, smallness, or insecurities , you should know that it’s the time to leave. Don’t fear that you’ll lose the great love of your life. You just have a parasite that’s feeding on you until it depletes you & move on. This is not healthy, it’s toxic & definitely not love.
You meet someone and make connection so quickly as if the whole universe has been conspiring for you two to meet, and fell for each other in the very moment you start conversation. You two feel blessed to have each other. All those relationship goals, cute lovey-dovey things, seem like have just been inspired by you two. As the time passes, love remains the same but misunderstandings and worldly things start overpowering that love. You try a lot to keep the love alive yet one day you both fed up trying, deciding to leave each other for their good. You can’t say the love wasn’t pure, maybe the will to keep that wasn’t enough. If you have this love, never let the circumstances break you down. Little time and patience can mend everything. Make sure if one is breaking or giving up trying, its other’s responsibility to keep the things going no matter how hard it gets.
Doesn’t matter if the glass is half empty or half full. Be greatful that you have a glass & there’s something in it.
If you really want to check onto people, if they’ll stay or not, show them your true emotional side, tell them how heavy is your heart that you carry inside your chest. Speak to them of your anxiety & insecurities., And what demons you fight to get through everyday. And you’d be a little surprised to see that the people who made promises to be at your side would leave. People who once told you ,that you’re their everything , would get tired to listening to your dramatically sad life. They can’t just ‘ ‘listen’ , you didn’t asked for any favour, you didn’t asked for help. You just wanted them to listen ,about how you feel, n’ what keeps you awake at night, But it would break your heart that they didn’t got patience to ‘listen’
It’s sad to see that majority of people unwilling & unknowingly leave their loved ones, their friends or their kids in despair, just because they didn’t ‘listened’. May be it was the time when your loved one was at their emotional peak, & they just wanted to open up their heart to you. And wanna hear the words ‘it’ll be alright, am here, I can feel you.’
Well I had always thought that God has given us one(1) tongue(mouth) & two(2) ears – so that we can talk less n’ listen more. So we need to pay attention to our loved ones, listen to them, spend time with them. As you know well time is the most precious gift that you can give to someone. People say “we had quality time with family” but they ignore the fact that they are more in need of ‘quantity time’.
We humans wander through the brush of life to be in embrace of another human. The ultimate need of a human is another human being.
Kindness makes you look more beautiful.
Hardwork makes you more attractive.
What you ‘do’ is so loud,
That I can’t hear what you say.
Egotism is the anaesthetic that deadens the pain of stupidity. – Knute Rockne.
Don’t wait for them to love you, know your worth, realise what you deserve, time doesn’t waits for no man. So neither should you do
In this infinite universe, possibilities are infinite. You just need to recognise them and believe in yourself. If you think you can and if you think you cannot ,you are right in both ways.
Have faith in yourself and take the first step ,start by doing what is possible for you and suddenly you will be doing the impossible. Never loose hope ,never get discouraged by defeats ,because nothing worthwhile in life comes without struggle, obstacles are in your mind ,and people who overcome those obstacles are more secure than those who have never faced them. Everyone faces disappointments, but those win who don’t get disheartened.
“A man is a hero not because he is braver than anyone else, but because he is brave for ten minutes longer.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson.
A smooth sea never made a skillfull mariner. Whenever you fall down in life ,just bounce back.