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Life

You meet someone and make connection so quickly as if the whole universe has been conspiring for you two to meet, and fell for each other in the very moment you start conversation. You two feel blessed to have each other. All those relationship goals, cute lovey-dovey things, seem like have just been inspired by you two. As the time passes, love remains the same but misunderstandings and worldly things start overpowering that love. You try a lot to keep the love alive yet one day you both fed up trying, deciding to leave each other for their good. You can’t say the love wasn’t pure, maybe the will to keep that wasn’t enough. If you have this love, never let the circumstances break you down. Little time and patience can mend everything. Make sure if one is breaking or giving up trying, its other’s responsibility to keep the things going no matter how hard it gets.

-prabh pannu-

Motivational Quotes

Loved ones will stay

If you really want to check onto people, if they’ll stay or not, show them your true emotional side, tell them how heavy is your heart that you carry inside your chest. Speak to them of your anxiety & insecurities., And what demons you fight to get through everyday. And you’d be a little surprised to see that the people who made promises to be at your side would leave. People who once told you ,that you’re their everything , would get tired to listening to your dramatically sad life. They can’t just ‘ ‘listen’ , you didn’t asked for any favour, you didn’t asked for help. You just wanted them to listen ,about how you feel, n’ what keeps you awake at night, But it would break your heart that they didn’t got patience to ‘listen’

It’s sad to see that majority of people unwilling & unknowingly leave their loved ones, their friends or their kids in despair, just because they didn’t ‘listened’. May be it was the time when your loved one was at their emotional peak, & they just wanted to open up their heart to you. And wanna hear the words ‘it’ll be alright, am here, I can feel you.’

Well I had always thought that God has given us one(1) tongue(mouth) & two(2) ears – so that we can talk less n’ listen more. So we need to pay attention to our loved ones, listen to them, spend time with them. As you know well time is the most precious gift that you can give to someone. People say “we had quality time with family” but they ignore the fact that they are more in need of ‘quantity time’.

We humans wander through the brush of life to be in embrace of another human. The ultimate need of a human is another human being.

Motivational Quotes, Poetry

Be in harmony like flower and honey bee

Taking a walk in the garden, she heard two flowers conversating. One said, “nights are long & lonely without your embrace. This is the pain of seperation that only we both & our friend the honey bee can understand.”

“For in the day time the honey bee acts as our messenger of love. Since the bee yet has not arrived, my longing for you is getting worse.” ,Said the another flower.

And just in that moment the bee arrived, on seeing him the flowers blossomed with joy. They said,”dear bee, our friend, you bring my beloved’s embrace to me, ang take my embrace to my beloved. Without you our love & our life cannot prosper & this colourful, beautiful garden will be deceased.

And the bee said,”my friend, I come to you everyday to get your nectar for that’s the only purpose, that I took birth as a honey bee, without you my dear, I also cannot exist as you fulfill the purpose of my life.

“If am the messenger of your love, you are the fountain of my life.”πŸ’•

Motivational Quotes

Never give up

In this infinite universe, possibilities are infinite. You just need to recognise them and believe in yourself. If you think you can and if you think you cannot ,you are right in both ways.

Have faith in yourself and take the first step ,start by doing what is possible for you and suddenly you will be doing the impossible. Never loose hope ,never get discouraged by defeats ,because nothing worthwhile in life comes without struggle, obstacles are in your mind ,and people who overcome those obstacles are more secure than those who have never faced them. Everyone faces disappointments, but those win who don’t get disheartened.

“A man is a hero not because he is braver than anyone else, but because he is brave for ten minutes longer.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson.

A smooth sea never made a skillfull mariner. Whenever you fall down in life ,just bounce back.

Motivational Quotes

Narcissist abuse in a narcissist relationship

It’s really hard to cope with a narcissist. With them everything is really not possible cuz one just can’t really survive with a narcissist. They hold grudges against you, for the things they did to you. They accuse others of what actually is an unconscious admission of their own character.

Narcissists can’t think about fixing themselves cuz they believe nothing is really wrong with them, but everyone around them is wrong, cruel and unkind to them.

And it’s heart breaking what they can actually do. They ruin people’s lives and move on like they did nothing wrong. They move on with no remorse, they don’t know what guilt is, cuz according to their belief they are the righteous. My experience with a narcissist says, their favourite sport is ‘the blame game’. They always need someone to put the blames on. They blame others for failures, bad physical health, and anything that’s not going good in their life. They keep telling you that you are toxic in their life. Narcissist uses their ex as an excuse for why they are in a merciful condition, when the reality is exactly the opposite.

Whatever a narcissist do is for a complete show off. They would help the helpless only to create a ‘fake nice image’ to the outside world. They love to pretend how great and kind they are.

What I have most observed in a narcissist is ,they claim themselves as victor as well as the victim at the very same moment , one just can’t figure out how to treat them at the moment. If one would treat them as victor ,they feel that the person is careless about them ,and not Interested in their issues!! And if they are treated like a victim, they get offended. It’s really hard to put up with such people.

They are exceptionally perfect at manipulating, lieing and taking advantage of, they become so mentally disabled ,that they start believing their own lies. You can never know everything is planned for their own benefit. Narcissists don’t know love, they don’t feel love, they only know the feeling that a person is worthless and don’t even deserve a consideration. Know that they believe that’s the only way to relate to people.

So,free yourself from such people before they completely destroy your self-esteem. Just know that it’s not your fault. Walking away from something unhealthy is brave , even my feet stumble on my way out to door ,but I made it. Getting over from a narcissist relationship is so hard cuz it’s on another level of deception, lies and blames that you lost yourself into pulling all this off. Normal relationships don’t have this crazy level of deception.