Ignoring a person who truly cares for you is equal to losing a diamond while collecting stones and ignoring the moon while counting stars.
Real luxury is inner peace. You reach a stage in your growth process, when you discover that luxury materials are not enjoyable without emotional stability.
Material things are only wants or desires & desires are never fulfilled. You get what you wished for & still feel like it’s not enough and your mind starts fleeting into a new desire ,even in the presence of the previous thing desired. You have no control over this & lack of control always results into stress. Whereas emotional stability & inner peace is a need that can’t be escaped or ignored. Self-awareness is the key to your growth towards eternal bliss & unconditional love. And self-awareness can be achieved by questioning yourself , that if you want to manifest something for your own self or to earn a reaction from people!!……..it takes a very honest conversation with yourself to find out that most of the things you Do for what other people think of you. And to get validation from people.
When you will liberate yourself from this attention seeking game ,inner peace becomes your luxury.
A smooth sea never made a skillful mariner.
There’s nothing like ideal circumstances.
A ship sometimes needs to sail with the wind and sometimes against it. But it must sail.
You have this power called ‘love’ ,love yourself first.
Give up what weighs you down, only then you can fly. Encourage yourself, and never doubt your capabilities. No-one can pull you down except yourself or without your permission. Self love is powerful and when you love who you are, your relationships will be healthier and your life will be happier. Self love sets the bars for how you allow others to treat you.
You know you are so near to get to the truth,,,
When you feel a peaceful joy inside…
Our ‘wants’ most of the times, overtake our ‘needs’ !!!!!!
How true is that!
I believe that’s why the lives are difficult…we get everything we want …but still there is no contentment….we crave for more n’ more. Wants become greed, and thirst of greed can never be fulfilled
we ignore the true needs of our soul!!!
Appreciate wherever you are in your journey of life. Even if it’s not where you want to be. Every situation has a purpose for you. Everything is happening to make you even stronger and braver than you are now. Life may not be the party that we hoped for, but while we are here we must dance.
Stop spending time for looking faults in others.
Make time to correct your own.
Anything good takes time ,be patient with people ,but chiefly be patient with yourself. For most of our suffering our impatience n’ restlessness is the reason.
The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.
Be at peace, sometimes you just need to flow with the life.
You see a turning point in your life ,but ignore it cuz you confuse a poisonous relation with love. Love is not poisonous.
You see others experiencing the same what you are going through. You listen to the stories of how someone ended up with a toxic person, and is at misery. You become restless ,coz somewhere deep inside your heart knows ,that if you didn’t get rid of this so called love, which is actually not. You’ll be in this miserable condition.
But putting aside your pride you carry on, coz you want to trust the one you love, you don’t want to give up on him. You want to believe in yourself, and in both of you. That’s a good characteristics of your personality. But has nothing to do with the person ,who only want you for their own benefits.
How can you expect a man who lies to himself everyday ,who believes in his own lies, to be honest with you.. sometimes people try to destroy you bit by bit coz they recognise your power, n’ they don’t want it to exist.
It’s important to recognise the toxic people n’ get rid of them before they completely destroy you.
They are the people who are always offended with the truth, and who have mastered to play the victim or innocent in all aspects. People who behave differently in public to gain a kind ,nice man’s image.
Whenever you find yourself the victim of others bitterness, smallness, or insecurities , you should know that it’s the time to leave. Don’t fear that you’ll lose the great love of your life. You just have a parasite that’s feeding on you until it depletes you & move on. This is not healthy, it’s toxic & definitely not love.