The only way to deal with an unfree world ,is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion. ,|Albert Camus|
Life puts us in many challenging situations. Life flows with time, or life is time or time is life!!!!!!
Anyway, time or life is something that you can’t stop or hold in your hand.
Sometimes we keep chasing someone who’s not meant for us. Or you can say ,that person doesn’t gives us any consideration & didn’t understand our emotions.
But with the persistence of a false hope in our hearts we keep showering our time & love over that person. Without realising, they never asked for it. But there is another situation when they have asked for your time & attention, but they didn’t really need that. You give them attention & show care,,soon you realise your efforts are wasted, what’s more heart breaking than this!!!!!
And when you are busy attending a person, who doesn’t really needs you, you overlook someone’s efforts to talk to you, to be in your life, that person who really needs you.
The passing time adds to the ache in your heart, you realise that you are not getting anything in return for your time , attention & care. Yes, i’hv heard that love doesn’t expects anything……….okay, love doesn’t ‘expects’ but love ‘needs’…… Love needs love in return.
Love is the fuel to love
Care is the fuel to care
For how long you can care for someone without being cared back!!
There comes a time when the clouds of false hope fade away, you start seeing the person who’s desperate for you, who can see through your soul.
Here too can be different situations,, like you need consideration, that you expected from someone else!!!
Or you don’t want them to be hurt because of you, coz you know how it feels to be ignored, & not cared!!!
N last can be ..that as you get closer …you start enjoying the bounty of life Together, you both see the life in same way…!!!
Well who’s truly meant for you, will come upto you, no matter how far they wander…….. they’ll reach your soul.
Sharp, edgy rocks grow nothing, be like soil grounded and crumbled. So the wild flowers will find you and come upto you wherever you are.
Appreciate wherever you are in your journey of life. Even if it’s not where you want to be. Every situation has a purpose for you. Everything is happening to make you even stronger and braver than you are now. Life may not be the party that we hoped for, but while we are here we must dance.
When you have no one to talk to- write, coz paper has more patience than man.
Supreme being is the one who teaches love and goodwill . And humanity is the spirit of that supreme being.
You can tell/advise someone over and over again to leave the situation. But they won’t untill they get courage & motivation by their inner self.
Some people don’t realise it takes so much strength to pull yourself out of a poisonous relation/situation with someone you love so deeply. Especially, for an empath or highly sensitive person its way too difficult. Coz they are good at catching other’s feelings. And they absorb alot toxic feelings frm a toxic person.
But one day they’ll wake up & realise that this is not how they want to feel & not the way they want to be treated & they’ll be done. Moving out of a poisonous relation is hell so difficult & it’s not like normal relations ,it takes a long time to get yourself detoxified from such relations & when you’ll do that today or anyday you’ll be proud of yourself. And by this way your true self & your real courage be revealed. *Amrit*
Anything good takes time ,be patient with people ,but chiefly be patient with yourself. For most of our suffering our impatience n’ restlessness is the reason.
The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.
Be at peace, sometimes you just need to flow with the life.
Let’s grow our hearts and minds larger, rather than our mouths.
You see a turning point in your life ,but ignore it cuz you confuse a poisonous relation with love. Love is not poisonous.
You see others experiencing the same what you are going through. You listen to the stories of how someone ended up with a toxic person, and is at misery. You become restless ,coz somewhere deep inside your heart knows ,that if you didn’t get rid of this so called love, which is actually not. You’ll be in this miserable condition.
But putting aside your pride you carry on, coz you want to trust the one you love, you don’t want to give up on him. You want to believe in yourself, and in both of you. That’s a good characteristics of your personality. But has nothing to do with the person ,who only want you for their own benefits.
How can you expect a man who lies to himself everyday ,who believes in his own lies, to be honest with you.. sometimes people try to destroy you bit by bit coz they recognise your power, n’ they don’t want it to exist.
It’s important to recognise the toxic people n’ get rid of them before they completely destroy you.
They are the people who are always offended with the truth, and who have mastered to play the victim or innocent in all aspects. People who behave differently in public to gain a kind ,nice man’s image.
Whenever you find yourself the victim of others bitterness, smallness, or insecurities , you should know that it’s the time to leave. Don’t fear that you’ll lose the great love of your life. You just have a parasite that’s feeding on you until it depletes you & move on. This is not healthy, it’s toxic & definitely not love.